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HOW TO REMAIN CALM WHEN YOU ARE ANXIOUS.

We all get anxious at some point and this can have a negative toll on your mental health. But how do we tackle it effectively one may ask? when I am anxious and restless I divert my mind in the following ways: 1.]DISTANT YOURSELF FROM THE WORLD.  WHY? When you are anxious your thoughts are all over the place, resulting in overthinking and also making you a vulnerable emotional person to the opposition. 2.] CALM YOURSELF. At the end of the day, it's you and you alone. You will have to pick yourself and get motivated all over again. No one is going to support you 24/7. This is the harsh reality. 3.]NOW TO SOMETHING. This is there after you are done overthinking. Now you will do something that you like or that calms your inner soul.  It can be: Listening to songs. Guided Meditation. Hobby. 4.] AFTER EFFECTS. I can reassure you that you have applied the above point to reality. You are now way better than what you were 1 hour prior. 5.]FEELING BETTER. Now you seem a bit more optimi...
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Things that I have learned in my years of living.

Life is a learning experience. It teaches us different things that can be hard to digest at times. Here is what LIFE has taught me. 1.]NOTHING IS PERMANENT. No situation, no friendship, no relationship is permanent. At least not in your teenage life. 2.]HAVE A PURPOSE. What is your purpose?  What keeps you going? Is it to prove someone wrong? Is it to prove something to yourself? Finding your purpose can be very different. Don't worry if you haven't found yours yet. People who are reaching 30 also haven't figured out their purpose, so you have a long time to figure it out. 3.]DIFFICULT ROADS LEAD TO BEAUTIFUL DESTINATION. No one wants to take the high road. Everyone wants shortcuts and this can result in your downfall. Therefore, take the high road because it will yield better fruits. 4.]BE GRATEFUL & POSITIVE. How many of us are grateful for our lives? How do we show such appreciation? When we are confronted by a difficult situation, what is our immediate reaction? WE ...
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GENZ RELATIONSHIP

Well, today's teenage relationships should not even be considered real relationships to be honest. Well, I am also from the Genz era, and believe me, it's not easy to maintain any sort of relationship here. Be it friendship or relationships. I hate the relationships of today's generation. Don't get me wrong, I don't dislike the idea of getting into a relationship but nowadays people's perception of it is ruined. All ideas of hookups and friends with benefits are spreading so much that people find it better to be in all these situationships than in real relationships. And don't even get me started on love. We are craving 1900's love in 2024 and it aint gonna work. It's truly saddening. First of all, everyone thinks too much about themselves that they feel that they are too good for anyone. This is the first red flag to begin with. The next thing that I hate in today's generation is the level of ''being casual''. people are not into...
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MY LOVE FOR COOKING.

Have you ever been to the kitchen? Experimented with the weirdest food combinations and then surprisingly they turned out amazing. I would say 95% ofhe time, the dish comes out well, let's keep the other 5% for improvement. I love to eat and taste different dishes and at the same time, I like to invent new delicacies. When I was younger, seeing my elders prepare a dish was like watching a YouTube tutorial that I would enjoy. That made me even more interested in cooking. If someone gives me an option between going out or cooking a meal, I without a doubt would choose cooking my meal. Who doesn't like delicious food? Well, I love to cook main course dishes. They are simply mouthwatering and utterly delicious. The taste when the spices hit your taste buds is surely pleasing to you. I am not a bookworm so you will never see me using any recipe books. At the most, I may take the help of YouTube or google to seek inspiration. I use the weirdest food combinations and they might not ev...
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Why did I start blogging?

For those of you who faithfully read my blogs and also for those who have accidentally landed here. Let me reassure you that you have done the right thing. I knew the term vlog but what on earth is blogging? I honestly didn't know until recently. I was randomly watching YouTube videos when I stumbled across this blogger whose name I am going to keep anonymous. She gave a general idea of how to start a blog and then I was like, hey, I recently created a website, why not turn that into my blog? When this idea settled in, I got overwhelmed with excitement and made a new official website. If you are interested, you too can start your blog. Then the best website you can use is Wix, please make sure that I am not promoting anything here. You can customize your website from the layout to the themes and so on. I uploaded my blog before on Wattpad and it did not generate traffic, then I uploaded my introduction on my website through Wix and that did generate a small amount of traffic on my ...
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Does this ever happen to you?

Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed about my day that I end up getting anxious and get nothing done at the end of the day.When I was younger I used to plan my entire day and if even a single task goes hare-wired I would get demotivated and waste the entire day doing absolutely nothing. But recently I have realized that it's okay when things don't go your way or as u planned it. I have accepted this reality and now whenever I'm not feeling productive, I take a break and then when I am feeling productive I do the task that has been kept pending. We are so hard on ourselves that we keep contemplating our decisions and end up procrastinating them. Learning to be open, that yes, some days I will be super productive, and some days, I won't. This mindset is very essential to a HAPPY LIFE.  BE PRODUCTIVE <3 New blogs every Wednesday
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INTRODUCTION

Introduction. I'm a teenager with her own list of  problems. I have started this blog to share my views and opinions on a particular topic with each new entry that I make . I hope that by reading my blog , you feel at ease . I will also share with you my personal opinions on how to romanticize your teenager life along with your problems. Our opinions may differ on several occasions but its our different perspective that makes us unique . Do not take things personally. If u have clicked on my blog , I hope you do stick around.
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